The Unexpected Mentor I Discovered at 60 — And Why Every Leader Should Have One

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The Lifelong Value of Mentorship: Why It Matters, Even at the Top

There’s a prevalent belief in leadership circles that as you climb the corporate ladder, the need for mentorship diminishes. Many assume that once you’re leading major initiatives or at the helm of large organizations, your wealth of experience is sufficient. After all, you’re in a mentor’s role, not the mentee’s. But this perspective can lead to stagnation and missed opportunities for growth.

The Myth of the Self-Sufficient Leader

Years ago, I reached what many would consider the apex of my career. I had run a successful business school and had a firm grasp on strategy, operations, culture-building, and fundraising. On the outside, I appeared to have everything figured out—someone who didn’t need guidance. However, the truth that often goes unspoken is this: the higher you rise, the more perilous it becomes to believe there’s nothing left to learn.

While experience can breed confidence, it can also narrow your vision. Familiarity might lead you into the trap of mistaking old methods for time-tested mastery. Ironically, the accomplishments that brought you to your current status may also restrict your potential for future growth.

The Transformative Power of Mentorship

This is precisely where having the right mentor becomes invaluable. Mentorship is not solely about guidance; it’s a dynamic relationship where both parties benefit. During my tenure as dean at the University of Arizona, I was encouraged to meet Michael Crow, president of Arizona State University. Our meetings took place not in offices but as we walked across the campus.

These walking sessions became a form of experiential learning. As we strolled from building to building, he unveiled ASU’s transformative journey, sharing the rationale behind each initiative and how they connected to a broader institutional vision.

By engaging in this unique method of mentorship, I began to understand a new level of institutional thinking. Michael was equipping me with insights about leadership that I hadn’t considered, preparing me for roles I hadn’t yet fathomed.

Expanding Your Perspective

Mentorship offers the chance to encounter perspectives that operate at different levels. Even with decades of experience under your belt, you can find someone who challenges your thinking and recalibrates your mental model. This is particularly true in later stages of your career when growth often stems from learning across different fields. Engaging with peers or leaders in adjacent industries can offer insights that invigorate your own strategy and thinking.

The Dangers of Relying Solely on Experience

While experience is undeniably valuable, it can also become constricting. Achievements can create habits and thought patterns that solidify into ruts. It’s easy to continue doing what has worked in the past, but a mentor can challenge these unexamined beliefs.

In my early academic career, I recognized the necessity of understanding fundraising to support ideas I was passionate about. I knew little about philanthropy, but the mentors I found—including major gift officers and donors—expanded my understanding and skill set, exposing me to opportunities I never knew existed.

Leadership today is inherently more complex than it was in the past. Rapid changes in technology, evolving cultural norms, and shifting expectations demand a willingness to adapt. A strong mentor serves as your guide through this labyrinth, helping you to remain both responsive and proactive.

Preparation for Roles Ahead

Mentors have the remarkable ability to prepare you for opportunities you may not yet recognize. Just as Michael positioned me for a presidency I hadn’t envisioned, many mentors plant the seeds for future growth before you even realize you need them.

Seeking Wisdom from All Ages

One significant lesson I’ve learned is that the most valuable mentor may be someone decades younger. Some of my rich insights now come from:

  • Younger faculty introducing new theories and instructional methods.
  • Early-career staff whose candid inquiries challenge outdated norms.
  • Students and recent graduates who navigate emerging technologies seamlessly.
  • Young team members who perceive opportunities that seasoned professionals might overlook.

These fresh perspectives are often unencumbered by traditional institutional constraints, encouraging me to maintain a curious and forward-thinking mindset.

Embracing the Concept of Reverse Mentorship

Reverse mentorship has evolved from a novel idea into a necessity. When you open yourself up to the wisdom of younger voices, you gain a clearer, more nuanced understanding of the future landscape.

The Importance of Staying Teachably

At its essence, mentorship is about fostering an environment where teachability supersedes hierarchy. As you reflect on your circle of advisors, consider:

  • Who challenges your assumptions?
  • Who tells you the hard truths, rather than what you want to hear?
  • Whose perspectives broaden your own?
  • Who helps illuminate the blind spots you’ve become blind to?

If you struggle to name individuals who fit these criteria, you might be overlooking one of the greatest advantages of being a seasoned leader: the capacity to learn from anyone, regardless of their age or stage in their career.

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